What is what to say when someone says you have a nice bum?

Okay, here's some information about how to respond to a compliment about your butt, in Markdown format, with the requested links:

Responding to a compliment about your bum can be tricky, as it depends on your relationship with the person, the context, and your own comfort level. Here are some options:

  • If you're comfortable and appreciate the compliment:

    • A simple and appreciative "Thank you!" is always a good option. You can also add a smile and make eye contact.
    • A playful "Why thank you, I've been working on it!" can be lighthearted, especially if you know the person well and feel the conversation is going well.
    • You can acknowledge the effort: "Thanks! I've been doing a lot of squats." (if true!)
  • If you're uncomfortable but want to be polite:

    • A polite but brief "Thank you" followed by changing the subject. This acknowledges the compliment without encouraging further comments.
    • A neutral acknowledgement like "Okay" or "Right" followed by shifting the conversation can also subtly discourage further advances.
  • If you find the compliment inappropriate or offensive:

    • A direct but calm response: "That's inappropriate" or "I'd prefer you didn't comment on my body." This sets a clear boundary.
    • A more assertive response: "That's not okay to say" or "I don't appreciate that comment."
    • Depending on the situation and your comfort level, you can choose to walk away or report the behavior to the appropriate authority (e.g., HR, security).

Important Considerations:

  • Context: Is it a friend, a stranger, a colleague? The appropriate response changes drastically based on this.
  • Your comfort level: Never feel pressured to respond in a way that makes you uneasy. Your safety and well-being are paramount.
  • Intent: Was it a genuine compliment or something more?

Here are some links with further information: